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Tuesday, May 26, 2009

#5 session .

SEX makes babies - that was all the girl said she knew about sex when she was 11 years old, the age at which she lost her virginity.

Now 13, she recounted matter-of-factly how she met her first boyfriend on the social networking site Friendster last year.

They started exchanging messages before taking their online relationship offline, going out in groups with other people they knew from the Internet.

ABOUT THE CASE

THE girl was only 11 when she had sex with her 16-year-old boyfriend in her flat last year. They had met on the social networking site, Friendster.

The pair had sex again on a staircase landing of a nearby HDB block around the same period of time.

The boy, now 17, was arrested and charged with having sex with an underage girl - defined under the law as being under the age of 16.

Don't let children lose themselves in virtual world

The Straits Times runs the girl's answers past clinical psychologist Carol Balhetchet, who is the director for youth services of the Singapore Children's Society

The girl said she thought that after having sex with the boy, the relationship would last. Do girls her age normally think like this?

This is very typical behaviour for a young girl with an older boy.

At her age, she could not have processed the risks and consequences of sex.

She would only be able to focus on her need to hang on to the relationship and see what she did as an investment.



after reading this article ,
i feel tht girls her age normally think like this
as they are not aware of the real happenings of sex .
coz maybe at her age there are not many relative talks abt sex .

i dont think tht girls around th age of 11
should go into a relationship as they have not matured yet .
they should go into a relationship when they reach a mature age .
for example , when they reach adult &&
understand more abt th consequences of sex .

tht's all .

= #6 post . =


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