Friday, May 29, 2009
session #6 .
In life, you will meet many people; some will encourage and help you and others that will discourage or even distract you. These people will eventually play a part in molding your character, values and life principles.
Can you identify the voices around you? “Voices” refers to those that are able to influence or make an impact on your actions/thoughts. E.g. Parents, friends, or even people who you do not know. Sometimes these “voices” can influence you without you being aware of it.
Question: As a student, what are the “voices” that surround you? What can you do to prevent those “voices” that can influence you negatively?
as a student ,
the voices which surround me
are my friends && family .
i can try to think more abt what is right
to prevent those "voices"to influence me negatively .
quiz ; abovetheinfluence.com/above-it.aspx#
quiz results ;
Your Results!
The Heat's On - The pressure is all around you, but you're dealing with it.
Based on your answers, you're probably feeling some pressure. You can start by recognizing the influences in your life and trusting your instincts. If you decide something's not for you, go with that. Your choices matter so try to make decisions that you can stand by and not feel bad about later.
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10:43 PM
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
#5 session .
SEX makes babies - that was all the girl said she knew about sex when she was 11 years old, the age at which she lost her virginity.
Now 13, she recounted matter-of-factly how she met her first boyfriend on the social networking site Friendster last year.
They started exchanging messages before taking their online relationship offline, going out in groups with other people they knew from the Internet.
ABOUT THE CASE
THE girl was only 11 when she had sex with her 16-year-old boyfriend in her flat last year. They had met on the social networking site, Friendster.
The pair had sex again on a staircase landing of a nearby HDB block around the same period of time.
The boy, now 17, was arrested and charged with having sex with an underage girl - defined under the law as being under the age of 16.
Don't let children lose themselves in virtual world
The Straits Times runs the girl's answers past clinical psychologist Carol Balhetchet, who is the director for youth services of the Singapore Children's Society
The girl said she thought that after having sex with the boy, the relationship would last. Do girls her age normally think like this?
This is very typical behaviour for a young girl with an older boy.
At her age, she could not have processed the risks and consequences of sex.
She would only be able to focus on her need to hang on to the relationship and see what she did as an investment.
after reading this article ,
i feel tht girls her age normally think like this
as they are not aware of the real happenings of sex .
coz maybe at her age there are not many relative talks abt sex .
i dont think tht girls around th age of 11
should go into a relationship as they have not matured yet .
they should go into a relationship when they reach a mature age .
for example , when they reach adult &&
understand more abt th consequences of sex .
tht's all .
= #6 post . =
6:36 PM
Thursday, May 21, 2009
i don't think tht this statement is true .
word can hurt you much more than sticks && stones .
they can even make you feel depressed .
when people call you a ' loser ',
&& you feel tht way ,
you may unconsiuosly call yourself a loser
&& consistently hurt yourself .
it may cause depression
&& in the end ,
you may even want to commit suicide .
that's all .
= #5 post . =
9:36 PM
session #3 .
a . )
i think that it is okay for people
pursuing a job in e gaming industry .
this is because not everyone is good at studies ,
diff people are good at diff things
&& one of them may be gaming .
if they have a talent in gaming ,
they should further nurture tht talent
&& thus gain a job in e gaming industry .
tht is why i feel okay for people
pursuing a career in e gaming industry
unless the person does not get addicted to it .
b . )
#1 . perserverance ;
he did not bother abt what his family
members thought about his future career .
tht is all the qualities i could think of .
so tht's all .
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9:22 PM
session #2 .
i think tht john should do
somemre research work on e virus
&& check if it is curable
&& if there is such medicine .
he should not just plainly believe
tht there is such medicine just by tht link ,
he should look for more reliable sources .
he should not open e attachment yet
as it might be a hoax or a computer virus .
he should not buy the medicine yet
until he discovers if e info is true .
if e info given on e msg is not true ,
he should not open e attachment at all .
that's all .
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9:06 PM
session #1 .
i think the vid is sharing to us
tht we should not post our private things ,
tht we want the public to see .
we should not put our photos on our blog ,
if not everyone would know our name .
that 's all .
= # 2 post . =
9:00 PM
Monday, May 18, 2009
this is like my first post.
created this post coz of the cyber-wellness thingy.
;D
= #1 post . =
8:21 PM
